How to Stay Connected with Grandkids Who Live Far Away

Being a grandparent is one of life’s greatest joys, but when grandkids live far away, it can feel like you’re missing out on everyday moments. Whether they’re in another city or across the country, maintaining a close relationship is still possible with a little creativity and effort.

At assisted living Fort Collins, many residents have found unique ways to stay in touch with their grandkids, strengthening bonds despite the distance.

Make Video Calls a Fun Routine

Phone calls are great, but seeing each other’s faces adds an entirely different level of connection. Video calls let you share smiles, read bedtime stories, or even play games together.

• Set up a weekly video call tradition—maybe Sunday morning chats or a midweek check-in.

• Use apps like Zoom, FaceTime, or Skype to make connecting simple.

• Read books, play “I Spy,” or share fun facts to keep conversations engaging.

A little structure makes it something both you and the grandkids look forward to each week.

Send Surprise Snail Mail

In an age of instant messaging, getting a handwritten letter or small package feels extra special.

• Write letters sharing stories from your past or asking about their latest adventures.

• Send postcards from places you visit—even if it’s just a scenic spot in your neighborhood.

• Put together a small care package with stickers, puzzles, or a book you can read together during video calls.

For grandkids who aren’t old enough to read, sending short voice recordings from assisted living can be a fun alternative.

Play Virtual Games Together

There are plenty of games designed for long-distance fun.

• Apps like Words with Friends, Chess.com, or Uno let you play at your own pace.

• Online trivia games, crossword puzzles, or even virtual board games can turn into a friendly competition.

• If your grandkids are into gaming, ask them to show you their favorite video game—you might even join in!

These activities create shared experiences, even when you’re miles apart.

Watch Shows or Read Books Together

A great way to bond is to share a story, even from a distance.

• Pick a book series and read together, discussing each chapter during calls.

• Watch a show or movie at the same time and talk about it afterward.

• Follow their favorite sports team and send messages about the latest game.

Shared interests give you something to talk about beyond just catching up on daily life.

Celebrate Special Occasions in Creative Ways

Just because you’re not in the same place doesn’t mean you can’t celebrate birthdays, holidays, or big achievements.

• Have a virtual birthday party with decorations and a cake on both ends.

• Send a video singing happy birthday or telling them how proud you are.

• Make a tradition of sending a small, meaningful gift each year—like a charm for a bracelet or a book with a handwritten note inside.

At Memory care Fort Collins, many families use creative strategies like these to help residents stay involved in their grandkids’ lives.