How to Stay Connected with Grandkids Who Live Far Away

Being a grandparent is one of life’s greatest joys, but when grandkids live far away, it can feel like you’re missing out on everyday moments. Whether they’re in another city or across the country, maintaining a close relationship is still possible with a little creativity and effort.

At assisted living Fort Collins, many residents have found unique ways to stay in touch with their grandkids, strengthening bonds despite the distance.

Make Video Calls a Fun Routine

Phone calls are great, but seeing each other’s faces adds an entirely different level of connection. Video calls let you share smiles, read bedtime stories, or even play games together.

• Set up a weekly video call tradition—maybe Sunday morning chats or a midweek check-in.

• Use apps like Zoom, FaceTime, or Skype to make connecting simple.

• Read books, play “I Spy,” or share fun facts to keep conversations engaging.

A little structure makes it something both you and the grandkids look forward to each week.

Send Surprise Snail Mail

In an age of instant messaging, getting a handwritten letter or small package feels extra special.

• Write letters sharing stories from your past or asking about their latest adventures.

• Send postcards from places you visit—even if it’s just a scenic spot in your neighborhood.

• Put together a small care package with stickers, puzzles, or a book you can read together during video calls.

For grandkids who aren’t old enough to read, sending short voice recordings from assisted living can be a fun alternative.

Play Virtual Games Together

There are plenty of games designed for long-distance fun.

• Apps like Words with Friends, Chess.com, or Uno let you play at your own pace.

• Online trivia games, crossword puzzles, or even virtual board games can turn into a friendly competition.

• If your grandkids are into gaming, ask them to show you their favorite video game—you might even join in!

These activities create shared experiences, even when you’re miles apart.

Watch Shows or Read Books Together

A great way to bond is to share a story, even from a distance.

• Pick a book series and read together, discussing each chapter during calls.

• Watch a show or movie at the same time and talk about it afterward.

• Follow their favorite sports team and send messages about the latest game.

Shared interests give you something to talk about beyond just catching up on daily life.

Celebrate Special Occasions in Creative Ways

Just because you’re not in the same place doesn’t mean you can’t celebrate birthdays, holidays, or big achievements.

• Have a virtual birthday party with decorations and a cake on both ends.

• Send a video singing happy birthday or telling them how proud you are.

• Make a tradition of sending a small, meaningful gift each year—like a charm for a bracelet or a book with a handwritten note inside.

At Memory care Fort Collins, many families use creative strategies like these to help residents stay involved in their grandkids’ lives.

Determining Care Needs for a Loved One with Alzheimer’s Disease

Luckily the progression of some cases of Alzheimer’s disease can be modestly slowed down with medication. These medicines tend to be most effective for people in the early to moderate stages of the disease. The Mayo Clinic explains while medications do not cure or stop the damage being done by the disease, they can help healthy brain cells work as well as they can.

They explain it is critical that the person and their caregivers work with a healthcare team to review symptoms and change treatments when needed. At some point medications stop working and families may need to have plans in place to care for the person especially if their safety is at risk, they are falling or have unattended access to appliances. Other indications include realizing your loved one is having trouble with daily personal tasks such as eating, bathing and properly taking their medications.

Losing weight can be a sign the person is forgetting to eat or needs supervision to eat. Also, a family caregiver may feel overwhelmed by the level of care the person now needs, particularly if they are becoming agitated and/or aggressive; or if they need care 24 hours a day.

For many families the solution is a dedicated dementia care community where the person can receive the services and care they need in a loving environment. At MorningStar memory care at Bear Creek in Colorado Springs, we compassionately provide all-inclusive, holistic memory care with the goal to enhance quality of life for our residents.

Every aspect of our care addresses the needs of our residents starting with the very design of our community to a wide range of wellness programs, activities and healthy, delicious meals. In addition, we provide access to licensed nurses and other supportive third-party service providers. Please visit our website for more information and to set up a tour.

MorningStar is guided by a culture rooted in our mission of honoring God, valuing seniors, and investing in our team, which allows us to deliver services with warmth, sincerity and depth of purpose. We have built a reputation for creating homes filled with an atmosphere of love and community. Contact us for more information about the finest alzheimers care in Colorado Springs.

What Are Cataracts?

Cataracts are cloudy areas that form in the lens of the eye, which is normally transparent, and more than 20 million Americans are currently affected by them. They are most common in adults over 40 years old and usually develop over several years. Surgery is generally recommended once vision is impaired to a degree that people have trouble reading, driving and recognizing faces. Today the surgery is a quick, safe procedure, replacing the cloudy lens with a clear plastic one.

Doctors say there are things people can do to reduce their risk of developing cataracts with quitting smoking at the top of that list. The U.S. Food and Drug Administration reports people who smoke are two to three times more likely to develop cataracts. A healthy diet of fresh fruits, vegetables, whole grains, good quality fats (avocados, olive oil, and omega oils) and lean animal-sourced or plant-sourced proteins additionally reduces the risk of cataracts.

Maintaining a healthy weight is important as obesity increases your risk of developing type 2 diabetes, which is a risk factor for cataracts. Other ways to reduce your risk include wearing UV blocking sunglasses when in the sunlight and getting at least 7 hours of sleep each night. The risk for cataracts also increases with age, family history, and a history of eye inflammation or injury.

If you are not ready for surgery yet, doctors say stronger glasses and brighter lights may help. Keep up with regular eye exams and renew your eyeglass prescription as needed. Wear sunglasses in the sun and avoid night driving. As your cataracts continue to develop and eyesight worsens, at some point you will most likely need surgery.

At MorningStar at Bear Creek, our goal is to provide the best memory care Colorado Springs offers, and our community was designed from the ground up to provide a safe, supportive and loving environment. As dementia care specialists, we consider it our calling, and privilege to walk alongside the memory-impaired and their families on this unexpected journey. Please visit our website for more information.

This post is intended for informational purposes only. Please contact your health care provider with any questions or concerns you have regarding your eyesight.

MorningStar has considered it a privilege and responsibility to “cast a new light” on senior living, inspired and empowered by our unique mission: to honor, to value, to invest. Our passionate commitment to serving seniors has proudly earned us a reputation for satisfaction that is second to none. Contact us to learn more about the finest memory care Colorado Springs has to offer.

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Effective Communication Strategies for Individuals with Alzheimer’s Disease

Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia can come on slowly but as the disease progresses, a spouse or other family members may find themselves struggling to communicate with the person. It is important to remember while symptoms vary and every person’s progression differs depending on the stage and type of dementia they have, a sad reality is many families have difficulty finding effective ways to communicate.

Experts say the best piece of advice is to be “patient with ourselves as caregivers.” Like other challenges in life, it may require you to tailor your communication in a way that can help you connect with the person, while at the same time, respecting their dignity. However, Carol Podgorski, a professor of psychiatry at the University of Rochester, warns, “Dementias are progressive and degenerative brain diseases that can last for over 10 years. Communication strategies vary by the stage of the disease as well as other factors, including language abilities, sensory function, relationship history with the person communicating, and even personality.”

Tips to more effectively communicate include speaking slowly and clearly; and then giving the person the time they need to reply back. Someone with dementia is much slower to process information as well as find the right words. Experts say conversation is best done in a quiet place without noises or distractions.

Another thing to pay attention to is your body language. As you give them time to answer, look them in the eye and silently project encouragement with friendly facial expressions. Nod in agreement as they go along. If they say something that is not realistic such as wondering why a deceased parent doesn’t visit, experts say “join the journey.” Rather than explain the person is dead, show them a picture of the person and suggest you can help them write a letter to their parents.

It is also easier to converse if you stay in the present than trying to ask them what they did this morning. In other words, don’t ask what they had for breakfast this morning but if they are hungry now. When the time comes that the disease has robbed them of speech, talk with them and not talk over them.

At MorningStar at Bear Creek, a memory care in Colorado Springs, we have 48 suites devoted to the care of those with Alzheimer’s and other dementia-related diseases. Every aspect of our community is geared toward residents’ care from meaningful activities, trained caregivers, food service, security and more. Visit our website to learn more about our dementia care, our team and our company’s philosophy to care.

MorningStar is guided by a culture rooted in our mission of honoring God, valuing seniors, and investing in our team, which allows us to deliver services with warmth, sincerity and depth of purpose. We have built a reputation for creating homes filled with an atmosphere of love and community. Contact us for more information about the finest memory care in Colorado Springs.

Source: aarp.org/caregiving/home-care/info-2025/talk-to-someone-with-dementia/

Understanding Palliative and Hospice Care

To help those dealing with end-of-life issues, the National Institute on Aging (NIA) explains some of the myths associated with palliative and hospice care including sorting out the difference between the two terms. They explain while they are similar, they do differ in a couple of significant ways.

Palliative care is defined as providing specialized care for those living with a serious illness. Myths linked to palliative care include the person no longer being able to receive care for their disease. The fact is care can be provided for the illness along with curative care. Another myth is the person will no longer be able to see their primary doctor but will only be treated by specialists. NIA says in many cases, the person’s primary provider will work hand-in-hand with specialists.

The intention of palliative care is to improve quality of life as well as provide care to improve help with symptoms. It also helps the patient understand their choices for medical treatment. A palliative care team may be made up of specialized nurses and doctors along with social workers, nutritionists and chaplains. If a time comes when the person’s care team decides treatment is no longer working, palliative care could transition to hospice care if the doctor believes the person is likely to die within six months. Another option is the palliative team would continue to help with the emphasis on providing comfort care.

The NIA explains hospice care provides comfort and quality of life for a person with a serious illness who is facing end of life. The myth surrounding hospice care is the person cannot receive any medications. The truth is a person will receive medications to help manage symptoms but not to treat the disease. Many people think hospice care can only be done in a hospital or nursing facility but experts say it can also be done at home.

MorningStar of Billings offers independent living and assisted living with a range of onsite amenities, hospitality and care services, wellness programs and activities designed for relaxing, stress-free retirement years. In addition, our Reflections Neighborhood provides specialized memory care for those with Alzheimer’s and other dementia-related diseases. Please contact us or visit our website for more information.

MorningStar has considered it a privilege and responsibility to “cast a new light” on senior living, inspired and empowered by our unique mission: to honor, to value, to invest. Our passionate commitment to serving seniors has earned us a reputation for satisfaction that is second to none. Contact us to learn more about the finest independent living, assisted living and memory care in Billings, MT.

Reduce the Risk of Dementia With a Healthy Diet

Researchers have found evidence suggesting genetics, environment, and lifestyle can affect our risk of developing Alzheimer’s and other dementia-related diseases. A poor diet is one of those lifestyle choices that causes high blood pressure and heart disease, and increases a person’s risk for Alzheimer’s disease.

WebMD.com reports the MIND diet; a combination of the Mediterranean and DASH diets has shown promise in reducing the risk or slowing cognitive decline. They cite a study showing MIND lowered the risk of Alzheimer's by 53% in those who follow it closely and by 35% in those who follow more loosely. They continue to say, “studies show that eating certain foods and avoiding unhealthy ones can slow brain aging by 7.5 years.”

To adhere to the diet, weekly meals should include food from the following groups: green leafy vegetables, other vegetables, nuts, berries, beans, whole grains, fish, poultry, olive oil, and wine. They say a good way to start is with a daily salad, one other vegetable, and three servings of whole grains every day. In terms of vegetables, collard greens, kale, and spinach have been found to be especially healthy.

Poultry should be eaten once a week, fish twice a week and beans every other day. Nuts and berries make good snacks, blueberries and strawberries being some of the best. Olive oil not only adds a great taste to food but has been shown to improve brain function over the long term and protect against dementia.

At MorningStar of Billings, assisted living, we offer residents a healthy, engaged lifestyle with stylish suites, luxury amenities, wellness programs and activities. In addition, our five-star dining experience features seasonal menus with the freshest ingredients from high quality producers, locally sourced whenever possible.

Meals at MorningStar include a variety of nutritional choices to allow residents to self-manage dietary habits and restrictions and include low sodium, gluten free, sugar free, no sugar added and low-fat options. Our chef also uses ingredients with high concentrations of vitamins, minerals, antioxidants and anti-inflammatory compounds known to support brain health and aptly named “Super Foods.” These include items like berries, Omega 3 fats, nuts and leafy greens. Please contact us or visit our website for more information about MorningStar’s independent living, assisted living or memory care in Billings, Montana.

MorningStar of Billings mission statement of “to honor, to value, to invest” sets us apart from other senior living communities. We have built a foundation on honoring God, valuing our seniors and selecting staff with a felt calling to serve. Set in a warm, loving atmosphere with beautiful surroundings and resort-style amenities, we provide outstanding retirement homes, assisted living and memory care.

Welcome Home to MorningStar Senior Living of Billings

Imagine being freed up from the many chores homeownership requires and having the time to pursue your various interests and hobbies, to travel, or spend more time with family and friends. Communities like MorningStar Senior Living of Billings can provide just that and more as we offer a wide array of services including housekeeping, tasty meals and other luxury amenities.

Our maintenance crew handles all repairs both inside and out as well as routine chores like the care of our beautiful grounds. This means as a resident, you will not be faced with unexpected maintenance bills, and instead enjoy the security of predictable budgeting.

Senior living residents also receive the personalized care they need for the ADLs (activities of daily living) to enable them to live life as independently as possible. Medication management services help seniors keep on track with their prescription drug usage. Transportation services to and from doctor visits and routine health screenings make it easy to keep up your medical care.

For all residents, our meaningful wellness programs and activities keep residents as busy as they like. Planned community-wide activities and outings let residents enjoy themselves and offer the perfect environment to meet new friends and create new memories. Smartly designed cottages and suites provide privacy while offering access to social activities, and the comfort and security of knowing someone is always around if help is needed.

Our all-day, restaurant-style dining services allow you to keep to your own schedule. Meals are chef-inspired and made from as many freshly sourced ingredients as possible. Residents on restricted diets have options for low-sodium, low calorie and other dietary preferences.

MorningStar is a top choice for independent and assisted living in Billings, and allows older adults to comfortably age in a beautiful and vibrant environment. In addition, our distinct Reflections Neighborhood offers holistic care to those with memory loss diseases. Call us or visit our website for more information and to schedule a tour.

MorningStar is guided by a culture rooted in our mission of honoring God, valuing seniors, and investing in our team, which allows us to deliver services with warmth, sincerity and depth of purpose. We have built a reputation for creating homes filled with an atmosphere of love and community. Please contact us to learn more about the finest independent living, assisted living and memory care in Billings, Montana.